Vegetarianism – Veganism – is it a choice?
For me, eating gluten free is NOT a choice. It is a medical necessity to LIVE.
The same for some who are dairy free, nut free, avoid shellfish, fish or in some cases eggs, or soy . IT IS NOT A CHOICE.
FOR SOME, IT IS A MATTER OF LIFE AND DEATH
So, when someone chooses to be vegetarian or vegan you really piss me off when you make a huge scene demanding your food choice be met. I’m sorry that a cycling event ran out of the vegetarian sandwiches. Just shows you’ve possibly chosen a healthy lifestyle like many others. I know you also started the ride an hour late and you arrived at the lunch stop between 1:30 and 2 PM. Is it really the organizers fault they didn’t have as many options that late? Besides, vegetarian was not even advertised though many events now offer vegetarian, isn’t that nice?
I don’t know you. And now I don’t really want to get to know you. That is maybe my loss. I suppose if I got to know you, maybe I would understand better what was really upsetting you. Was it really the lack of vegetarian sandwiches or is there a much deeper issue in your life and this is your way of asking for help. I probably should have been more compassionate and learned about your life but I was busy coordinating my group for the event. I did offer you several of my food options from cheese, gluten free tortilla, peanut butter, cashews and two kinds of energy bars – all of which are vegetarian.
However, I bet you could have picked the meat out of those sandwiches that were being served and eat just the veggies, cheese and roll. I absolutely CAN NOT just discard the roll and eat the filings. You see, a piece of wheat bread, even the size as one grain of salt is enough to buckle me over, given me an unwanted colon cleanse and lots more, like chills and cramps followed by joint pain and a migraine that may last several days. And God knows what damage is done to the villi of my gut that can lead to cancers, further bone issues from what I already have and many, many other serious complications of living with an auto-immune disease.
You don’t see me making a fuss at events because SAFE gluten free food options aren’t made available. I still pay the full registration fee like everyone else, even though I know I can’t eat any of the food offerings. If your diet is that restricting then by damn, take care of yourself and bring your own food. Yes, it sucks to have to plan ahead and live with the anxiety of knowing where I will get enough safe nutritional calories to live. But, you see, I don’t have a choice.
You don’t see me making a scene, demanding a refund or exceptions be made for me.
You see, I also have volunteered over the years for lots of fundraising events and I know how difficult it is to feed a crowd of a few dozen to hundreds or even thousands. This particular bicycling event had 600 riders. It is a volunteer bike race team that plans and runs this event. These cyclists (men and women racers) put on this event to do good in their community. Profits don’t go to their team, they go to local charities.
They are putting on a fun event for us, the paying guest who receive numerous benefits. Routes are planned, well marked, donuts and coffee, water, snacks, lunch and dinner are provided to those who can eat them. The wineries are lined up and provide free tasting. Where else can you taste and compare world renowned wines at over a dozen winery’s for free.
Winery’s often extend event day discounts to us that are even better then their club rates. The event sponsor (those men and women of the local cycling team), drive around all day during the event keeping us safe, carting our wine purchases from the winery’s to the finish of the ride and they provide sag for those who over estimated their abilities to ride 75 kilometers.
They provide us with a phone contact in case of emergency. They have sag support vehicles on the course. Of which you can be glad if you didn’t need them, but it sure is nice knowing they are out there. My group of 12 was grateful for the sag support as one passed us while we were fixing a flat. The sag guy stopped, took over and was way faster then us at fixing the flat and even had a top notch floor pump. And then, another of our riders realized he had a flat too. Before we knew it, this kind cycling team race member, driving sag, repaired the second flat just as fast. Cheerfully joking and visiting with us the whole time.
I’m sorry your dietary CHOICE wasn’t met. I’m sorry you didn’t prepare and pack your own energy bar. I’m sorry you didn’t feel you could purchase a snack for yourself at one of the winery’s. Most of the winery’s had vegetarian food options available for purchase. I hope you have learned something from this event.
It’s nice to be taken care of, however, I sincerely wish many in this world would accept responsibility for themselves, their actions and words.
People are watching. What example are you teaching?
I can’t find any research on the medical necessity for one to eat vegetarian. If you are eating vegetarian for religious, environmental, you believe it’s healthier (research data is mixed on this), animal welfare, I get it. But, that is your choice. Again, if eating vegetarian is truly a medical necessity for you, then do what I do, and be responsible for your own dietary needs. (And maybe send me the scientific research showing the link to a medical condition thats treatment is vegetarianism. I’m open to learning.) EDITED: proof of a meat intolerance, learn something new everyday: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alpha-gal_allergy
I found this quote. Something to ponder.
“If any animal was hungry enough, it would cast aside any issues and eat you. Hunger must be fed in whatever form is available. If you are in a land hit by drought and the only thing standing in between you and death is a roaming chicken, your survival instinct would say eat the chicken. If you refused and died, that hungry chicken would certainly peck at your corpse.”
BTW if you’ve read this far, you maybe interested to know, I was a lacto-ovo vegetarian for several years, but it was my choice. I CHOSE to be vegetarian in hopes that if would improve my health. It did not! I have a neice who is vegan, by choice, and several family members are varing degrees of vegetarians and have been for many, many decdes.. They choose to eat this way do to economics, animal cruelity and environmental reasons. I respect that and I love to serve them food that meets their WISHES/CHOICES. But to demand and make a scene if I don’t provide them vegan options, that would be just plan rude and disrespectful.
Humans have canine teeth and teeth for cutting and ripping meat. As a species it appears we are meant to eat meet. Dairy (besides a mothers milk) and gluten on the other hand, appear to be possibly harmful foods for ALL humans.